When a new baby arrives, all eyes turn to the newborn, and the older child can suddenly feel left out. Giving a gift to the big brother or big sister at the time of the birth is a thoughtful gesture: it reassures the child, celebrates their new role and turns the arrival of the little one into a moment of pride rather than a source of jealousy. Here are personalized gift ideas to celebrate the new sibling bond.
In short: to mark the new baby's arrival on the older child's side, choose a gift that is about them and their new place in the family. A symbolic item (a "big brother" t-shirt, a book about siblings), one-on-one time, or a personalized art portrait bringing both children together: all are ways to tell the older child they matter just as much as the newborn.
Why give a gift to the big brother or big sister at the birth?
The arrival of a second child upends the family balance. The older child, until now the center of attention, suddenly has to share their parents. A small gift at the time of the birth sends a clear message: they are not forgotten — in fact they gain a new and important role.
This gesture helps prevent jealousy, builds a first positive bond with the baby and anchors a happy memory of this big change. Many parents even present the gift as coming "from the baby", to spark a sense of connection from day one.
What personalized gift ideas are there for the older child?
The best gift celebrates the older child and their new identity as a big brother or big sister. A few ideas:
- A matching t-shirt or bodysuit reading "big brother" / "big sister", sometimes coordinated with the baby's.
- A book about the arrival of a little brother or sister, to put words to their emotions.
- A treasure box or a soft toy chosen just for them.
- Special one-on-one time with a parent, symbolized by a small object.
- A personalized art portrait of the siblings, created from a photo of the two children together: a decorative, lasting gift that celebrates their new bond.
For more newborn-side ideas, see also our guide to the personalized new baby gift.
How does a personalized art portrait help the older child welcome the baby?
A portrait that brings the older child and the newborn together makes visible, on a wall or in the bedroom, the idea that they are now a team. The child sees themselves pictured beside their little brother or sister: they feel included, not replaced.
At Kinico, you turn your favorite photo of the two children into an art portrait in the style of your choice (watercolor, Japanese ink, botanical, black gold, prism…). Hung in the older child's room, it becomes a reassuring landmark and a keepsake of this founding moment.
Which style and format should you choose for a sibling portrait?
Kinico offers six artistic styles for every theme: Pastel Watercolor, Golden Watercolor, Japanese Ink, Botanical, Black Gold and Prism. For a child's room, soft styles like Pastel Watercolor or Botanical work beautifully; Black Gold or Prism give a more graphic look for a living space.
For the format, two options: the premium 200 gsm art-paper print or the canvas, in several sizes. The portrait is delivered as a print, ready to hang. You can test each style for free before choosing by previewing your portrait with your own photo.
What text can you add to the portrait for the older child?
Personalizing the portrait with a few words adds symbolic value. Some text ideas:
- The older child's first name followed by "big brother" or "big sister".
- Both first names side by side, with the baby's date of birth.
- A short line such as "Since day one" or "Always by your side".
You add and edit this text in real time during personalization, before any payment.
How much does a personalized portrait cost and how can you try it for free?
Kinico art portraits start at €39.90 (indicative price; exact rates depend on the format and size and are shown on the Birth page). Delivery is free and every order is covered by our satisfied or refunded guarantee.
Best of all, the trial is free. Upload a photo of the two children, generate the preview in seconds and pay only if you love the result.
Frequently asked questions
Should you give a gift to the big brother or big sister at the birth?
Not mandatory, but highly recommended. A small gift at the time of the birth reassures the older child, celebrates their new role and helps prevent jealousy toward the newborn.
What gift suits an older child aged 2 or 3?
At this age, choose a concrete, affectionate item: a soft toy, a book about siblings, a "big brother/big sister" t-shirt, or a sibling art portrait to hang in their room as a reassuring landmark.
Can you make a portrait with both children together?
Yes. Simply upload a photo showing the older child and the baby. Kinico turns it into an art portrait in the style of your choice, bringing both children together in one artwork.
Is the Kinico portrait delivered ready to hang?
The portrait is delivered as a print on 200 gsm art paper or on canvas, ready to hang in the bedroom or living room. You choose the format and size when ordering.
Can you add the names and date to the portrait?
Yes. You can add and edit the text (names, date of birth, a short line) in real time during personalization, before any payment.
Can you try before buying?
Yes. The trial is free: upload your photo, preview the portrait in the chosen style and pay only if you are happy with the result. Delivery is free and satisfaction guaranteed or refunded.